Category: Life
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Life update: Finding balance and falling back in love with writing
It was 8am and I was still in my pyjamas, As I poured myself a second cup of coffee and got my water bottle, I wondered how the mindful session would go. Would there be on-the-spot assignments to complete? Would I be required to have my 2022 goals all mapped out and ready to go?…
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2021: How it started vs How it’s going
I love having a routine, planning and having systems in place that help me achieve my goals. I love the rhythm I get into, planning out my days and weeks, tracking my progress on tasks and being able to tick an activity as completed. I get an immense sense of of accomplishment, when at the…
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I am not my hair…or am I?
I never truly appreciated the lyrics to India Arie’s I am not my hair, until I looked at myself in the mirror, I didn’t like what I saw. I remember the first time I permed my hair. I was 13 years old and after years of begging, cajoling and even bargaining with my mum, she…
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Embracing the cycling culture in the Netherlands
Growing up, a favourite pass time activity for most kids in the estates was cycling in the estate. Not everyone had the pleasure of owning their own bike, so we took turns riding, careful to stick within the estate though if you were a bad ass, you cycled to neighbouring estates and even the main…
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No clowns allowed.
I do not like clowns; I really do not, and while I understand their slapstick style of comedy is meant to bring joy and laughter to children and adults, I find them downright creepy. On some level, I find it hard to believe that anyone is capable of being that happy all the time, possibly…
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Is this what they called an identity crisis?
It was one of the hottest days in the Netherlands, with highs of 33 degrees. The last thing I wanted was to be out in the sun but I had committed to taking part and supporting this volunteer project at Volewijck Playground and I’m not one to go back on my word. So, I braved…
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Confessions of a secret eater
I had just gotten off a two-hour phone call with one of my best friends and at that moment, while I was still in the reverie of our conversations, memories, I felt like she was next to me and I could hug her. Something was different this time though and I couldn’t put my finger…
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Living and loving the Netherlands
I double checked my suitcases to make sure I hadn’t forgotten anything because I’d be boarding the plane in few hours. In addition to my to do list things to do before my travel, my lover had also sent me a long shopping list of stuff he wanted me to get, the most crucial item…
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Casting call…
I had to read it twice to make sure I wasn’t seeing my own things, so you’ll understand me when I tell you I was skeptical about it at first. Would I be required to strut down a runway? Was I going to end up on YouTube in one of those videos titled “Models graceful…
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Lessons from 2019 and being intentional with 2020
One of my best friends Edel sent me the photo below a few days before Christmas saying it reminded her of me. Apparently, it’s a thing I do …I say I love you to my family and friends every time I get off a phone call with them or wrapping up a chat. I often…
